Screwed by the ADHD Nervous System: Hating the 1-Minute Orgasm
Fight, Flight, or F*ck Why I Come Fast When My Brain Finally Feels Safe
Why I come fast…
ADHD quick climax isn’t fear, it’s my nervous system finally exhaling.
I don’t come too fast because I’m scared.
I come too fast because it feels so damn good I finally stop over-thinking
and the moment I do, my body says yes.
Too loud.
Too fast.
Too soon.
And damn, it’s already over.
The Frustration Loop
I want to keep going.
I want the dirty talk.
I want to edge her.
I want to tease and circle and bite and build it.
But when control drops, orgasm slams the door.
Not dysfunction
pattern + desire + dopamine.
I finish before I reach the next layer of filth.
“I was just about to drop into that next tier of moans
the one where her voice gets mean,
where she begs for more,
where I can actually stroke her mind.”
Instead, I’m done.
Too soon.
And I hate it.
Because I don’t want to stop before she’s dripping from my words, not just my fingers.
I’ve talked to guys who time their orgasm like a ticking bomb,
terrified it’ll explode before they get a chance to worship.
If that’s you, welcome to the club
we’re learning to turn that detonation into an aftershock, not a finish line.
Trick the Body, Keep the Story
That’s why I’ve trained my body through edging
Why I damn better when I’m narrating
Why I love role-play, fluidity, switching
When my brain’s still thinking, I can stay present without finishing.
Creative sex is how I trick my body into staying.
I don’t want to end it too fast
so I create a scene I can stay inside.
Not because I need to perform.
Because I crave holding that loop longer.
I want her to moan through round one,
and keep going until my brain resets
and I can screw her with round-two precision.
I even talk to her about it.
“As soon as I cum, don’t stop the dirty talk.”
“Tease me while I’m catching my breath.”
“Let’s keep the scene alive while I’m inside you again.”
Because this isn’t about stamina.
It’s about staying in the story.
The First Time It Worked
I remember her face, how she looked at me and this energy we shared.
She kept the dirty talk flowing.
We stayed in role.
I was fingering her.
She rubbed her clit.
My cock got harder against her leg, and she felt it.
She screamed, came, locked eyes, and snarled,
“Holy crap, you’re hard again?
Screw me hard now.”
Game over.
Loop complete.
We didn’t restart.
We never stopped.
Own the Dysregulation
Don’t take this as a rulebook.
Don’t copy it like it’s a guide.
This is just what works for me.
It helped me stop being mad when I came too fast.
It helped me stay present even when the orgasm hit early.
It gave me permission to say
Screw it, let’s make this a part two.
Our bodies don’t run the same software.
Our nervous systems don’t obey the same triggers.
But once I stopped shaming the dysregulation
once I owned how my ADHD body pulses, loops, reacts
everything changed.
I just need to stay in the moment
and know I can always create the next one.
Keep the Scene Alive
Drop the line that makes you finish too fast.
Then tell me how you’ll keep the story running while your body reloads.
